I actually like Cal more in the movie (that wonderful voice/accent and his looks), but Jack has qualities that I'd like in a life partner.I know what you mean about finding someone. What Jack and Rose had surely does exist, it's known as an infatuation, something that doesnt usually last more than 18 months (speaking from a psychological stand point, which I'm sure no one wants to hear).Those arent too hard to find, but true love is what will last; and when you get that comfortable and secure feeling, even after all the super affectionet and romantic feelings (infatuation) have warn off, that is when you know you have it. That's what's hard to find.

Jessica